This moment, This Look

Happy Monday Guys! A few months ago, I talked about the importance of having a mentor. Actually, it might even have been about a year ago, here .

 One of the most ridiculous relationship rules this generation has created is the idea that: “If someone really cares about you, they will respond immediately.”

Dating Debate: Can Truth or Dare Spice Up Your Relationship?  We’ve all heard of Truth or Dare .

On finding love in 2026, T here is a kind of woman you do not date casually. 

Welcome to this part of the blog where I am actively, intentionally, and slightly aggressively helping you find love in 2026. And listen, if you do find love because of this series, you must tell me. You don’t have to announce it on the blog. You can send me a private email. But if you find love and don’t tell me? I will haunt you. Lovingly. Soon. Now, before we get into where to find love, because yes, I’ll tell you places, I want us to pause and talk about something way more important: Your mindset. Because a lot of relationships don’t end because “you met the wrong person.” They end because you entered the connection already bleeding, confused, or unclear and then wondered why it collapsed within two weeks. So let’s talk about five things that might be sabotaging your love life before it even starts. 1. You Haven’t Grieved Properly And yes, grief still counts even if nobody died. Grief shows up in many forms, especially after a breakup you haven’t fully processed. The problem? Inste...

Hi guys! If you haven’t read Day 1 and Day 2 yet, pause here, go back, and catch up; everything will make perfect sense once you do.

  Yes, This Is a Compatibility Question

For the longest time, I thought my love language was words of affirmation.

There’s a quiet pattern that plays out in relationships, one most people don’t notice until they’re already in it.

Today, we’re talking about goals.

Hi guys! Welcome to Day Five of the Compatibility Checklist.

                                           Happy New Month, Beautiful People. It’s Officially Holiday Season! 

Weeks ago, I said I’d share how I get over heartbreak. And before I start, let me say this: I don’t believe healing is one-size-fits-all.

I’m really sorry for putting the Compatibility Checklist on pause.

Not every relationship ends because there was no love.   Some end because there was no safe way to speak.

Intimacy is a huge topic, wide, layered, emotional, physical, and spiritual, and there’s no way to cover it all in one day.

Oh my goodness… April ended on such a high. But before anything else…

Yesterday, someone very dear to me asked a question that stopped me in my tracks: “How often do you stop to think about the sweet things I do for you?”

This week has been an incredibly sad one.

You guys already know that I am not really someone who sits down and watches television regularly.