Welcome to this part of the blog where I am actively, intentionally, and slightly aggressively helping you find love in 2026. And listen, if you do find love because of this series, you must tell me. You don’t have to announce it on the blog. You can send me a private email. But if you find love and don’t tell me? I will haunt you. Lovingly. Soon. Now, before we get into where to find love, because yes, I’ll tell you places, I want us to pause and talk about something way more important: Your mindset. Because a lot of relationships don’t end because “you met the wrong person.” They end because you entered the connection already bleeding, confused, or unclear and then wondered why it collapsed within two weeks. So let’s talk about five things that might be sabotaging your love life before it even starts. 1. You Haven’t Grieved Properly And yes, grief still counts even if nobody died. Grief shows up in many forms, especially after a breakup you haven’t fully processed. The problem? Inste...