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The Days I Want to Disappear

Some days

I want to fight.

Some days

I want to disappear.
Not forever.

Just long enough

to stop answering texts,

stop returning calls,

stop carrying things

that don’t belong in my hands.

I call it zoning.

Drifting

from thought to thought,

room to room,

worry to worry.

Alone with my mind.

Alone with myself.

And maybe

this is what adulthood feels like.

Discovering that when things get hard,

you don’t always get to run.

You keep going.

Even when you’re tired.

Even when your arms ache.

Even when the little raft

keeping you afloat

gets snatched away.

And suddenly

you’re treading water again.

Trying not to drown.

Trying not to panic.

Trying not to become

the thing that’s breaking you.

Somewhere in the middle of all that,

I think of Titanic.

And I laugh.

Because apparently

my mind has a strange sense of humour.

Imagine thinking about a movie

while your life feels chaotic.

Maybe I should scream.

Maybe I should write.

Maybe I should tell someone

what’s keeping me awake at night.

Find a brother.

Find a sister.

Find someone strong enough

to help me carry the weight.

Or maybe

I keep trying to solve the puzzle alone.

So I lie here.

Unsure.

Thinking about the million things

I should be doing.

The million things

that could make life easier.

And all I want

is ease.

Not the temporary kind.

The real kind.

The kind that settles in your soul.

Maybe joy is already here

and I’m just too distracted

to see it.

Maybe I’ve spent so long

counting what’s wrong

that I’ve forgotten to notice

what’s working.

Maybe I need to stop worrying.

But how do you stop worrying

when your mind won’t sit still?

So today,

I do the only thing I know how to do.

I breathe.

I exhale.

And I keep my head

above the water

for one more day.

Tomorrow,

I’ll do it again.

With Love,
Ayo

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