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How I Hit 10,000 Steps a Day as a Busy Mum

 This week’s Fitness Friday feels special because I stayed consistent with my 10,000 steps and according to everyone around me, I’m slightly crazy.

To everyone who joined the challenge: thank you.

Although I’ve just discovered that the app I chose only allows you to see your own steps and mine (I honestly didn’t know this 😅), which means we can’t cheer each other on properly. That will definitely change soon because we need that healthy competition and daily encouragement.

But let me tell you how this first week actually looked in real life, in real time because there was no gym, no long workout block, just intentional movement woven into my day.

5:00 AM — Worship, Prayer & Steps in the Hallway

My day starts at 5am.

From 5:00 to 5:15, I’m not outside, I’m not doing anything fancy. I’m simply walking back and forth between the kitchen and the hallway.

Worship music playing.

Prayers for the day.

Gratitude.

Declarations.

Fifteen minutes of movement that wakes up my body and my spirit.

It’s gentle. It’s quiet. It’s powerful.


6:45 AM - 8:00 AM: The School-Run Cardio

By the time we do the morning routine and school runs, the steps are already adding up.

This is real mum-life fitness:

walking to and fro

carrying bags

going back for forgotten items

“Mummy wait for me!” moments 😄

By this point I’m usually sitting at around 2,500 steps, sometimes more, depending on how much the boys decide to test my patience that morning.


12:00 PM – 12:25 PM: My Creative Walk

This has become my favourite part of the day.

My lunchtime walk is not just about steps, it’s where my mind runs free.

This is where:

business ideas are born

life plans are rearranged

blog posts are drafted in my head

prayers turn into vision

There is something about fresh air and movement that unlocks creativity for me.

This is usually about 3500-5000 Steps.


3:30 PM: School Pick-Up

More steps.

More movement.

More real life.

No pressure, just consistency.


6:00 PM — Evening Reset Walk

After picking up my second son, I add another short walk and then something that has really helped me:

15 minutes of walking every hour until bedtime.


Nothing intense.

Just movement.


The Sleep Goal (That I’m Still Working On)

My ideal routine:

Bed at 10:00 PM

Wake at 5:00 AM

At least 7 hours of sleep

Reality?


Some nights it’s midnight 🙈

But 5am still happens, that’s the discipline.


And the best part?

When I finally lie down, I sleep deeply. That kind of rest that only comes from a full, active day.


Unexpected Changes in My Body

People keep saying:

“You’re getting skinny.”

Yes, the steps + fasting combination has leaned me out a bit.


Am I worried?

Not really.


Fasting is almost over, and my body will find its balance again.


What I do love:

no bloating

feeling lighter

feeling stronger

the natural tiredness at night


I’ve even started raising my hands while walking, turning some of my steps into light upper-body movement and moments of praise.

Fitness… but make it holistic.


Next Step: A Better App & A Real Community

We’re changing apps soon because I want us to:

see each other’s steps

challenge one another

celebrate progress together


Because this isn’t just about 10,000 steps.


It’s about:

showing up for yourself

building discipline

honouring your body

clearing your mind

and doing it together.


Not sure how to start, read My Fitness Journey.


With Love,

Fitness Girlie (Ayo)

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