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Tired All the Time: Is It Just Life, or Something More?

 

How many times have you said, “I’m just tired”?

For some of us, it comes after a long day at work. For others, it’s the late nights of study, caring for family, or the invisible weight of responsibilities we carry. Even those without children or partners know the kind of tired that lingers, the exhaustion that seeps into weekends, holidays, and even supposed “rest days.”

Tiredness feels like the soundtrack to modern womanhood. We wear it almost like a badge of honour, proof that we are working hard, showing up, doing it all. But what if tiredness is not just a by-product of busy lives? What if it is your body’s way of asking for attention?

When tiredness is more than being busy 

There are many reasons why fatigue takes hold, and not all of them are tied to how much we do in a day. Sometimes, it is simply the reality of a packed schedule, poor sleep, or never giving ourselves space to slow down. But there are also times when the tiredness that lingers points to something more.

For example, nutritional gaps such as low iron, vitamin D, or vitamin B12 can sap energy in ways that rest alone will never restore. Thyroid conditions, which often develop quietly, can shift the body’s balance and leave you feeling drained, forgetful, or low in mood. Mental health also plays a part: stress, anxiety, or depression often show up first in the body as sheer exhaustion. And sometimes, tiredness is the earliest red flag of an underlying health condition, a warning sign that should not be brushed aside.

The important thing is to pay attention to patterns. If your tiredness eases after a good rest, it may be nothing more than a busy season. But if it is constant, if it clouds your focus, or if you wake up feeling just as exhausted as when you went to bed, it is worth looking more closely.

A small step to try

Do not dismiss constant tiredness as “just life.” Try keeping a simple journal of your sleep, meals, energy levels, and stress triggers for a couple of weeks. If patterns emerge or if fatigue continues despite rest, it is time to start the conversation with a healthcare professional. Your tiredness has a story, and it deserves to be heard.

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Written by Yetty

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