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Never Have I Ever: Spicy, Sexy & Romantic Edition


So…let’s end the holiday on a little different note tonight.

It’s the last day of the holiday, the vibes are good, and honestly. What better way to end the night than with a little chaos, a little honesty… and for some of you, a little alcohol? 😂

Now let me just say this upfront:
I do not drink.

My body? It rejects alcohol like it’s doing a full security check.

So instead, every time I’m “supposed” to drink… I take a mini Coke shot (Oops, New Year’s Resolution in the mud). Yes. Coke. Small one. Shot style. Don’t judge me 😭

But for those of you that do drink, this one is for you.

I picked a few questions from my Spicy, Sexy & Romantic Never Have I Ever list… and decided to answer them honestly.

Let’s just say… some of these exposed me a little 👀

💋 My Answers… No Filter

1. Never have I ever felt instant chemistry with someone the moment our eyes met.
Absolutely not.
I’m sorry but I need more than eye contact, words please. You people that fall in love in 0.5 seconds? Teach me your ways.

2. Never have I ever thought about someone way more than I should have.
Oh… this is me every single time.
I don’t just cross the line, I pack my bags and relocate there.

3. Never have I ever had a hug that lasted just a little too long.
Nope.
I don’t do hugs like that. If I hug you, just know… you’re important. This is premium access 😌

4. Never have I ever enjoyed flirting just for the thrill of it.
Guilty as charged.
Sometimes it’s not even about the person… it’s just the vibe.

5. Never have I ever imagined what it would be like to kiss someone.
Guilty.
And let’s not even pretend this is rare.

6. Never have I ever caught feelings when I wasn’t supposed to.
Guilty.
Every. Single. Time.
Why is self-control on vacation when I need it most?

7. Never have I ever had tension with someone that everyone else could feel.
Hmm… I don’t think so.
I’m very good at hiding things.
If you notice, it’s because you’re paying too much attention… and now I’m suspicious of you 👀

8. Never have I ever replayed a moment with someone in my head over and over again.
Guiltyyyyy.
Full replay. Director’s cut. Bonus scenes. Everything.

9. Never have I ever been attracted to someone’s mind before anything else.
This is actually non-negotiable for me.
If your mind doesn’t do something for me… nothing else will.

10. Never have I ever had a conversation that felt dangerously intimate.
Guilty.
You know those conversations where you pause after and think…
“Wait… what just happened there?”
Yeah. Those ones.


🥂 Your Turn
I’ll stop here before I expose myself completely 😂

The rest?
That’s for you.

        11. Never have I ever felt butterflies from just a text or a voice note.
12. Never have I ever wanted someone more after they pulled away a little.
13. Never have I ever locked eyes with someone and felt like time paused.
14. Never have I ever been curious about someone I barely knew.
15. Never have I ever felt that unspoken vibe that didn’t need words.
16. Never have I ever dressed up hoping someone specific would notice.
17. Never have I ever enjoyed the tension of “will something happen or not?”
18. Never have I ever had a moment that felt like it belonged in a movie.
19. Never have I ever smiled at my phone because of one person.
20. Never have I ever felt something real… even if it didn’t go anywhere.

Whether you’re drinking, sipping Coke like me, or just reading and side-eyeing quietly… I hope this made your night a little more fun, a little more honest, and maybe even a little more reflective.

Because sometimes, in the middle of laughter and games…
we accidentally tell the truth about ourselves.

And those are the moments that stay.


Final thoughts

I hope you’ve had an amazing holiday.
Mine turned out even better than I expected, and I’m choosing to sit in that gratitude.


With love,
Ayo 💛


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