Valentine’s Q&A: Love Languages, Dating & Soft Romance

Flowers or chocolates?

I’m a sweet tooth, I love chocolates…

but I’m also that girl who wants to walk into the kitchen and find fresh florals waiting.

So yeah, flowers 🌸

First date: dinner or activity?

Activity.

I’m shy, I don’t want to be chewing in front of someone I barely know, and I’ll probably waste the food anyway 😭

Activities let you talk, laugh, move, way better.

What’s your love language (in order)?

1.  Time

2. Words

3. Acts of service

4. Touch

5. Gifts

Talk to me nicely, give me your time, show up for me, the rest will follow.

Sweet love or spicy love?

Spicy.

I love the kind of love that feels impossible… until it isn’t.

The kind that stretches you, makes you love deep.

I dare to love, even when it’s risky.

Favourite rom-com or love movie?

Pretty Woman.

Unpredictable, layered, misunderstood but extraordinary.

She wasn’t meant for that life, and you could tell.

Red roses or mixed florals?

Mixed flowers. Always.

One small thing that instantly makes someone attractive?

Outfits 

If you dress well, you already have my attention.

Be groomed, be intelligent, be able to talk about a little bit of everything.

Valentine’s night in or night out?

Night in.

Too many people outside.

Something small, soft, intentional. Games, conversation, presence.

Love notes or surprise gifts?

Love notes.

Honesty.

Tell me how you feel and mean it.

I struggle with receiving gifts anyway, that’s a story for another day 😭

Soft love or loud love?

Hidden love.

Just you and me knowing.

Across the room, one look, and we both understand.

That’s my person. That’s my kind of love.

With Love,

Ayo ❤️